写在前言的排雷：
1.guanyujiebujiedengwenti：nvzhubujie，nanzhumenyoudejieyoudebujie，buhuikeyiqumiaoshu。zuozhebuainvbuainan，zhishixiangxiediandongxi，hentuhensu，meixiangshangshengrenhejiazhiguan。
2.wobixiadenvzhuxinggehuibuwanmei，nanzhumenyeshi，tamenbenshenxinggeyouhaoyouhuai，nvzhushenshangdebuffhuifangdatamendezhinian，erbushitamendenengli。
3.nvzhushenshangyoukaiguan，taxindonglecaihuikaiqiguanghuan。suoyitahuihenzhangyiduanshijiangaobudongyuanyou，danshimingbaiguilvtayemeibanfagaibianzijidexinyi，yinweixinbuhuixiangdanaoyiyangziwoqipian，tazhiyankongxihuandeleixing。
4.benrenkanshuxphenguaihenxiaozhong，gancuizigetuirou，suoyiwenbibuhao，meishenmeluojikeyan，dajiasuiyikankan，buxihuandehuayezhuduzhemennengzhaodaozijixihuandewen，yongyuanbushuhuang！xiwanggaotaiguishou，shanyanjieshanyuan。
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dangmenlingdingdongxiangqideshihou，chenjiazhengzaiguagualuntanshangherenduipen。
tabashoujifangzaidiannaopangbian，qukaimen。
menkoushiyigemeizenmejianguodewaimaixiaoge。chenjiatiantiandianwaimai，jianguodewaimaigewaimaijiejiumeijizhujigeshumiankong，nalewaimaijiuyaoguanshangmen，beineigewaimaixiaogetaiqishouzhizhi。
chenjiashouwozaimenbashoushang，jingtidewen，“haiyoushenmeshi？”
waimaixiaogeshizhengchangdelaodongrenmindeyangzi，daizheqixingtoukui，shencaizhongdeng，tingsangyinshigezhongnianren。waimianxiaogeyibianshuazheshoujibuzhidaozaidianshenme，yibianhechenjiadaoqian，“gangcaixiayu，lushanghaishuaileyijiao，buzhidaoyoumeiyoubadangaoshuaihuai，meinvnidakaikanyixia，ai，wozuipajiedangaodanzile，nikanzheyaoshihuaile，wojininzhongxinsongyifen。”
“womeidiandangaoa。”chenjiafandaodanzi，shangmianxiezhededizhihedianhuadoushizijide，bucunzaisongcuo，xiangxiangkenengshiwangshangnanpengyousongde，biandaxiaoleyilv。
bawaimaichaikai，limiandedangaowanhaowusun，kanbuchulaiyoukepengdehenji，yushichenjiabianrangwaimaixiaogezoule，zijizhongxinhuidaodiannaozhuoqiannaqishoujijixuduixian。
yankanzheduimianyuelaiyuepofang，madefanweiyecongchenjiadefumuzhujianshangshengdaozuzong，chenjiazaimawanyijugengzangdehuahou，guoduanbaduifanglahei，shunbianzhuxiaolezhanghu。
tazheicaiyoukongdakaiweixinxiaoxi。
youyudayouxi，chenjiajialehenduoqun，neixiequngegedouhenrenao，banxiaoshimeikanjihudoushi99+。
chenjiadiankaiweixinqizhongyigedongmannantoudezhiding：22nandacshifujige
duimianshishifenzhongzhiqianfalaidexiaoxi，：baobaonichilema？wojinidianledangaozuodianxin，buyaozaijianfeile。
chenjiadangshimangzhehebierenduixian，meikandaozheitiaoxiaoxi，xianzaitadakaidangao，yaoleyidakousaizuibali，meiyoubandianyaojianfeideyangzi，shoulikuaisudejiduimianhuifuxiaoxi，“nizenmeyoujiwodianwaimaia，zhenfan，wohaixianggengshoudiandaoshihouhenibenxiangenghaokanni。”
duimianrenhuixiaoxihuidebichenjiakuaiduole：nibuyongshencaijiaolv，womenyoubushimei**guo，woyoubuhuixianqini，nizheiyangjiuhenhao。
chenjiadazi：zhennanimeibanfa，xiacibukeyizaijiwodianwaimailee。
kandaoduimianfujigefalaidebiaoqingbao，chenjiabaduihuakuangtuichu，zhaodaoleyigebeizhuwei：32ashiyishengderen，duifangdexiaoxiyijingfalesiwutiaole，doushicuicuchenjiashenmeshihoushangyouxidewenti。
chenjiazuoweibangpaizhanliqianershidenaima，neigejiazibaidexiangdanggao，bushizheirenzuoweifuhuizhangcuicu，chenjiayibandouhuizhaojiekoutuidiao，danyouduimianzheigerenzai，chenjiajiuzhidaojintianbangzhanbuguanshidashuhaishidaying，zijidouyouhongbaona。
chenjiamashanghuifushuo，：gangxiabandaojia，haimeilaidejichifanni，womashangshangxian。
jizijisuzaoleyigeduibangpaijingjingyeyedexingxiang。
shishishichenjiazaojiuzaijialidunleyinianduo，buranganmazaiyouxilichuqingyuanpianchipianheni？
duimiankandaochenjiahuifu，falaidexinxiyemeineimecuicule，：buji，nixianchifan，qidianbanzhunshishangxianmaili**jiuxing。
duimianzheinandepingshihechenjiajiaoliubuduo，yinweichenjiaourantingrenshuoguo，zheirenxianshishenghuoliyoulaopohaizi，pingchangqunlifahongbaohendafang，youbuailiaomei，chenjiahaojigejiemeidoushangqushiguozheigenande，youdezhangdebichenjiahaipiaoliangbushigaop，shouduanyebichenjialihai，doumeiliaodao，dajiasixiadouzhuomochuzheinandehaizhenshilaiwanyouxilaizhe，yushijiubamuguangfangdaolebierenshenshang。
chenjiaxianzaideqingyuanshicikebangsan，yaozhidaochenjiasuozaidenaimabangwandedoushimeimei，henshaoyaoren，chulejigefupo，queshihenshaorenchongbang。xiangchenjiayeshihenhenchongqianyekankandaobangshi，hebangjiu“lihuajiang”dadeyoulaiyouhuide。
erneixiecikebangzhanshibangderendouzhenggengjiajilie，chenjiaqingyuanxianshibuzhidaoshifujidai，fanzhengjialiyoudianxiaoqian，wanzheigeyouxicaisangeyuejiuchongdaolebangsan，cailikejianshifenxionghou。pingshiduichenjiasongliyehenshidafang，meicibanbengengxinchongzhibaifahuodong，fujigezhijieshanghaojitachongshangbaodisiqian，rangchenjiazijishanghaochoujiang。
shuoqiliangrenchuqingyuan，chenjiaqishimeixiangzhaozheifujigechude。
dangshifujigecaiwanzheiyouxiyigexingqi，chenjiasuozaidebangpaipaixingdier，fuligao，danmeidiyibangpaineimejuan。
chenjiachuanzheyouxishifusongdexinshizhuang，zaiguaji，ourankandaoshifuzaidaibanglidemengxindaben。
chenjiahenaibiaoxian，mashangshenqingjinzu，yijinzujiukaizhemaiduishifuxuhanwennuan，shengpazheigemengxinbenbashifuleidao。chenjiazhangxiangyiban，pengyouquandezhaopianyejibendougaop，danyouzheyifutianmeimengmengdadeshengxian，bashifuzheigeluoliyinkonganfudeshuxindebuxing，zhenjuedezijixianzaizheigetudihenhao，henhuiguanxinziji，buxiangzhiqianneixietudi，shouwanliwushuogexiexiejiuhenshaolianxile。
fugeyeshijiangjiuqingxujiazhide。
yushifujigedangchangjiuduichenjiayoulexiexuhaogan，zaizhihoubanglidexiangchurizizhong，fujigefaxianchenjiasuirankanqilaihenyouqian，danquexiangdangdidiao，pingchangdoushiheshifushiniangzheixiegudingrenzudui，henshaozhanhuarecao，yilaierqufujigejiuduichenjiaxindongle。
taxianshizhangdebucuo，suiranchenjiazaiwangshangyongtianmeideshengyinbatamidewumisandaode，dantaqueshitingpaduimianzhenmianmutingherende，liangrenaimeiqikaiguo**，suirandabudaofujigexinmuzhongdexiannvshuiping，danchenjiayebuchoua，zaijiashangtayeduichenjiaxiangchuchuleganqing，zhengshishangtouqi，nalihaiguandeleneimeduo，aidesiquhuolaide，tiantianzaiqunlihechenjiarujiaosiqi。
fujigemeizizidexiang，tagongkaiwo，taxinliyouwo。
tanalizhidao，chenjiashuabendedabufenshijian，weixinhetaguazhemai，shijishangyouxiliqueshinuyimeimeijitashuaben，tashoulihaiwanzhebiedeyouxihelimiandeyuliaotianni。
chenjiabushizhuanmendelaonv，tazhishiaiwanyouxiaichongqian，youshebudeyongfumudetixujin，zhihaozaiwangshangzhaoxieyuandayuanaidezhanan，laolaoxiaoqianguoguoyin。
tashoujiwandeyouxishiguominyouxiwangzherongyao，tajishuhaikeyi，jibenshangdoushikaozhezijishangrongyao，ouerjiejigerongyaodanzi，zhengdianxinkufei，houlaitafaxianxinkudadanzimeiyouzuopeiwanlaiqiankuai。yushitakailezhanghaojiepeiwandanzi，yuezhengwanjia，zheibiandexiaofeibiwangyoudi，suoyichenjiameixiangzaiwangzherongyaozhaoduixiang。
danshitaguyimeiyoubianjiegan，duisuoyoulaobanneijiaoyigewenrou，gaodeyouxielaobanyeshixinliqishangbaxiade，jiqianyegewaidafanggancui。
bangzhanyibandoushichenjiazijishangde，tashoulihaiyougewangzherongyaodepeiwandan，zheilaobanjiqianyehentongkuai，erqiepingchangbijiaoaishuohua。yushichenjiabameimeicongfangjianlijiaochulai，“chenyue，zheigedanziwanshangnibangwodale，nijiuwangeyao，gualaobantoushangjiuxingle，dengxiawobalaobanyouxiidfajini。”
meimeichenyuehaimeidaopanniqi，pingchanghentingjiejiedehua，jintianquebuleyi，“wanyaoyoushayisi，woxiangwanshangguanwaner。”
“nidawanyixiaoshi，suibiannitongxiaowanduojiudeshangguanwanerdoumeiwenti，zheigelaobanjiuxihuanwowanyaoguatatoushang，niguaiguaide，wodengxiadangaofenniyiban。”
chenyuekanzhechenjiamianqianwadecanburendudedangao，buganbaxianqibiaoshidetaimingxian，taxiangdaojintianshangxueshihoutingdaotongzhuomeiyuelinghuaqiandouyouershikuai，buxiangziji，meicibangjiejiedayixiaoshidanzicaiwukuaiqian，suirantazhengdebitongzhuoduo，danzijidoushixinkuqiana，zongganjuejiejieshouliyougengduodeqian。
chenyuezhidaojintianshijiejiedebangzhanshijian，zhengshizijitixinzidehaoshihou，shuo，“wobuguan，woyixiaoshiyaoshikuaiqian，wanyaowuliaosile，haiburuwowanbiedeyingxiongyingdekuaiyidianni。youxielaobanyeqiqiguaiguaide，feiyaoxiucaozuo，shulehaiyaowodazianwei，tamenbufanchunbuzaoyinglema？"
“nibhuazenmeneimeduo，xianqijiejieyazhanishiba，cangtiana，meiyoujiejieniyiweiyourenzhaonizheigexiaoxueshengdayouxima？”chenjiaduizhechenyueshuliandeyidunpua，“yixiaoshibakuaiqian，nimentongxuesheiyounizhuanqiankuaia，yipianzuowencaiyikuaiqian，yaoxieduojiu，nixianzaiyounengwanyouxifangsong，youyouqianzhuan，zheiyangdehaoshiyejiuzhiyounijiejiexiangzheni。”
yidunhaoshuodaishuo，chenyuezheicaimanyidejieguoshoujitijiejiezuodashoule。haozaichenyuewanyouxibichenjiahailihai，buranchenjiayebuhuizhaomeimeilaiyiqizhengqian。
fujigeneibianyeshoudaolewaimaixiaogechuanlaideduanxin：shinvdejiede，bushishenmenande。nijidejiwohaopinga！
fujigezheicaibaxinfangzaileduzili，tazuijinzongjuedechenjiashinande，buranzenmezheimelejieziji，jianzhixiangtianzuozhiheni？xiangdaozhiqiankanjianguodewangluozhapianxinwen，taxiangchenjiadeliangaibuhuishiaihuandebeihoushigekoujiaodahanba？
neitazhendeshilunweisushedexiaobing，ganjuenengbeisheyoujishinian。
xiapudezhangzhianhetaguanxizuihao，kantagudaozheshoujicouguolaiwen，“zenmeyang，baninvpengyouzhaopianjiwokankan？”
fujigexuananyibatuikai，“xiangshenmeni，**duobudaodea，wolaopomeipianwo，queshishigenvde。”
zhangzhianshuobuchuhualai，xuanansuiranbushisushezuiyouqiande，dankanzheyebuxianglianainaoa，zenmezheijigeyuezaiwangshangaideyoulaiyouqude？
xuananshicshibendiren，tingshuojialishikaoshangsanbeikaizhechaoshiqijiade，xianzaiyijingbianchengshangshijituan，gegeshidouyoumingxiafengongsi，henyouqian。tadexueyechengjiyiban，weiyiaihaojiushidayouxi，gangkaixueqijiutingshuozheixiaozijingranwanglianshangle。
duifangdeshengyinzhangzhianourantingdaoguo，xuananyoukongjiuhechenjialianmai，youshihoumaideshengyinda，huitouguoerjichuanchulai。chenjiadeshengyinhenrouruan，daidiannanfangteyoudeqiangdiao，suanshibucuodeshengyin。
youyushiyigezhuanye，liangrenguanxibijiaohao，xuananhuiouerhetashuoqichenjia。zhangzhiannaohailizhujiangoulechuyigeshanglebanxiabanhuijiajiushidayouxidelihainvren。
tacongmeitanguojiedilian，danlianaizhongderenyouduoshangtoutazhidao，zhinengpaipaixuanandejianbang，zuohuizijidediannaozhuoqian。