1.zainaozhongxiangqishi，wozhengjiangzuihouyizhixiangbincharuhuaping。jintianshiwoheluwangnanjiehunsanzhounian。
guandiaonaozhongwokanlekanshijian，nachuhengwenjiujulineiping82niandelafei，zhijianhuaguobingliangdepingshen，
ditoukanleyanwanjiandejiuyinshoulian，lianjiebeisuiyuemodefaliang。kanzheshoulianwoyouxieshishen，
deluwangnannazhe**zandeqianqinzijiwotiaodexiangliangaoxingdegenwoshuozheishitarenshengdiyitongjinjiwomaideliwu，
yiyifeifanrangwodedaishangyibeizi，neishihoudetayanjingliangdeyaobazhenggeyinhedoupengdaowomianqian。
“kada”——yaochizhuandongdeshengyinxiangqi，jiangwoconghuiyidetianmililahuishen。wojihushixiaopaozheyingshangqude，
chunjiaodexiaoyitiandenengnisiren：“wangnan，nihuilai……”houbanjukazaihoulongli。
woyikaimenjiukandaoleluwangnanshenhougenzhegechuanbailianyiqundenvren。nvrenqunbaizhanzhecaoxie，
yankuanghongdexiangbeiyudashidetuzi，jingzhihaokandeliandanshangguazhexieyushui。
zheirenzhengshidangnianmingdongquanxiaodexiaohua——xuyu。wolengleyihui，
haimeikaikoujiutingjianjiaoroutiannideshengyin“qiaoqiaojie。”xuyuqieshengshengdiwangluwangnanshenhousuolesuo，
shengyinruandexiangmianhuatang：“duibuqia，wodechebanluhuaileganghaopengjianlewangnange，
wangnantashuopawolinyuganmaole，rangwolaihuanyitaoyifu，
shunlusongwohuilainadiandongxi……”luwangnanmianwushensetuoxiaxizhuangwaitaodijiwo，zhijiancaguowoshoubeishi，
haidaiguoyigutiannidezhizihuaxiang——luwangnanguanyongdelengshanmudiao，tashuotacongbuxihuanneixiehuaxiangwei。
“zhouqiao，nataoxindeyifujixuyuhuanshangba，tachimagennichabuduo。
”luwangnanjiangxizhuangdijiwohoumuguangdoumeizaiwolianshangtingliubanfenjiudandanfenfuleyiju，
suihoujingzhihuitoukanxiangxuyu，yuqibuzijuefangruan：“zhanzheganma？haibujinlai？
zheimeliangdetianzaimenkouchuizheyebupaganmao？”woniezhexizhuangdeshouzhizhouranshoujin，
buliaoshangdexiangshuiweixiangzhenyiyangzhajinbiqiang。shenxiyikouqi，
zhengyaokaikouwenluwangnanzhibuzhidaojintianshiwogentadezhounianjiutingjianxuyuchoulechoubizi：“wangnange，
shibushidaraoniheqiaoqiaojieguojinianrile？douguaiwo……dangnianzaixuexiaojiukanchulaile，
niliangcaishitianzaodishedeyiduini，buxiangwo……”zheihuatingdewoweiliyizhenfanyong。
dangnianxuyupengzheqingshuduluwangnansushemendeshi，zhenggexisheibuzhidao？luwangnanzhoumeikanlewoyiyan，
neiyanshenlidebunaifanjihuyaoyichulai：“buguojiushizhounianjinianri，duodadianshi。zhouqiao，
nijixuyudaobeiwenshui。”luwangnanshenzhimeiyoukanwodelianse，zuozaishafachelechelingdai，
buchongdao：“taweibuhao，hebulelengshui。”yuqizirandefangfozaishuojintiantianqibucuo。
woduanzheshuibeichulaishi，zhengzhuangjianxuyuzhijianqingdianzhechajishangdehunshazhao，shengyinbudabuxiao，
ganghaonengrangchulaidewotingjian：“qiaoqiaojiezhenyoufuqi，wangnangexianzaizheimechenggong，haiduijiejiezheimehao。
naxiangwo，jialiliangenengxiudengpaoderendoumeiyou……”“xuyuni——”wogangyaoshuohua，jiubeiluwangnandaduan。
“nizenmehuishi？”tazhouzhemei，yuqidaizhexunchi，“yuyugennikeqiliangju，nizheishenmetaidu？
”xuyulikehongleyankuang，lazheluwangnandexiuziyaotou：“buguaiqiaoqiaojie，
shiwoshuocuohuale……wangnangenibiexiongjiejie，wohaishixianzouba……”“zuozhe。”luwangnananzhutadejianbang，
lidaolidaizheburongzhiyideweihu，zhuantoukanxiangzhouqiaoshi，yanshenlengdexiangbing，“zhouqiao，ninengbunengchengshudian？
yuyushikeren。”wokanzheyanqianzheiyimu，huranjuedeneiping82niandelafeigewaifengci。
xiangqiluwangnanchuangyechuqi，
shiwojiangwobasongjiwodefangzidiyalecouchudiyibiqidongzijin；tagongsixianzaiyinyiweiaodehexinjishu，
shiwozaichanfangwaishouzhebingweidefuqinshi，tongxiaogaileqibandefangan。kexianzai，
taduizhelingyigenvrenxuhanwennuan，zhuantoujiuzhizewobugou“chengshu”。wojiangchashuidiguoqujixuyu，
pingjingshuochuhoubanju：“xuyunidecha。”wokanleyiyanzhuomiandexiangbin，
zhijuedewanjiandeyinshoulianjiangwodepifuluodeshengteng。wocengjingyiwei，
shinianganqingzhuqidehunyinshijianbukecuideliulizhan，quemeixiangguo，zuixiandongshouqiaosuitaderen，
shiwoailezhenggeqingchundenanren。chuangwaideyueguangmanjinlai，zhaoliangluwangnanlengjiaofenmingdecelian。
woqingqinghuilefangjian，molemosanniandehunjie，fangzaichuangtoujushang，fachuyishengqingxiang。
buyihuiluwangnanjinlaiqiaoxiangfangmen：“wobarendousongzoulenihaibugaoxingma？zhouqiao，
nidepiqishiyuelaiyuebuhaole，xingshiyeyuefabutimian。”butimian？wokanzhetianhuabanyouxieshishen。
luwangnandehuaxiangshishenmedongxi，zhengzaiwoxindiliekai。zicongneirihou，wobianbuzaiguanluwangnan，santianhou，
woquluwangnangongsisongyifenjiamiwenjian。diantizaishibaloutingxiashi，zoulangjintouchuanlaishuxidexiaosheng，
shiluwangnandehupenggouyouwangan：“wangnankeyia，xiaohuazheimekuaidaoshoule？zhouqiaozhidaoma？”“zhidaoshenme？
”luwangnandeshengyinhunzheqingtiaodexiaoyi：“ta？jiushigemeiqingqudegongzuojiqi，naxiangyuyu，dongzenmetengren。
”“neizhouqiaoderenmaibuyongle？”“yonga，”luwangnanchixiaoyisheng，“tadeziyuan，yuyudewenrou，
liangbuwu。”wanganxiaolexiao：“haideshiwonange，huashuoxiangzhouqiaozheiyangwuqudenvren，
dangniannishibushikanshangtadejishucaizhuitade？bijingxiangzhouqiaozheiyanglihaiderenwu，yibandagongsidounanqingdedong。
”luwangnanchixiao：“buran，sheixihuanquyigezhizhidaozuoshujuzuoyanjiunongbianchengdemuyunaodaihuiqu。
”wozhanzaiyuandi，tingzheliangrendexiaosheng，xueyefangfoshunjiandongjie。shoulidewenjiandailuodeshouxinshengteng，
jiamiupanlishiwoaolesangetongxiaoyouhuadeshengchanxiancanshu，cikequexianggexiaohua。womeiyouchongjinqu，
zhishiqingqingjiangwenjiandaifangzaimenkou，zhuanshenshi，gaogenxieqiaojidimiandeshengxiangzaikongkuangdezoulanglihuidang，
xiangqiaosuiliulidecuixiang。2.wozouchuluwangnangongsidaloushi，zhengwudeyangguangzhenglie，cideyanjingshengteng。
zhaixiawanjianbeilierizhuodefaredeyinshoulian，fangjinbaolizuishendejiaceng。
neidaobeilianjiemochudeqianhenhaizaiwangushang，xiangdaotunsedejiushangba，zhongyuzaizheiyikechedishiqulewendu。
shoujizheishizaibaolizhendongshi，woyiweishiluwangnandalaide，kanyemeikanjiuandiao。zhidaodisancizhendong，
kanzhedalesancijinlaidemoshenghaoma，wotingxiajiaobu，zhijianxuanzaijietingjianshangfangliangmiao，
zuizhonghuakailetonghuajiemian。“qiaoqiaojie，”xuyudeshengyinguozhekeyiyadidequeyue，xianghanzheketang，
“nishibushizaigongsilouxia？wokanjiannidechele。”zhouqiaotaitouwangxiangshibaloudeluodichuang，
neililazhehouhoudebaiyelian，shenmeyekanbujian。wohuranxiangqidaxueshi，luwangnanzongaizhanzaijiaoxuelouxia，
yangzhetoukanwosuozaideshiyanshichuangkou，xiangzhidengdaizhurenfumodexiaogou。“youshi？”wodeshengyinbibingmiangengleng。
“yemeishenme，”duifangqingxiaoyisheng，beijingyinlichuanlaizhizhangfandongdeshashasheng，
“jiushiwangnangerangwozhenglitabangongshi，faxianhaoduonidedongxini。daxueshidebijiben，
haiyounisongtadediyigebaowenbei……tashuoliuzhezhandifang，rangworengleni。woxiangdaodinishitamendezhuren，
xiangwenyiwennideyijian。”wowozheshoujidezhijiefanbai，neibenbijibenlijiazhewogenluwangnandiyizhanghezhao，
zaitushuguandejiaoluo，wochuanzhexidefabaidexiaofu，luwangnantoutouwangwoshoulisailekedabaitunaitang。
neigebaowenbei，shiwoyongjiangxuejinmaide，yinweitazongwangjiheshui。“rengba。
”wodeshengyinpingwendexiangzaitanluntianqi。gualedianhuahouwomeiyouhuijia，zhunquelaishuo，neiliyijingbuwodejia。
woqulelvshishiwusuo，zuozaizhenpishafashang，
tinglvshizhutiaojiangjielihuncaichanfengetiaokuanshishixianluozaichuangwaidewutongshushang。haijidequnianqiutian，
luwangnanhaibaozhewozaipumanluoyedeyuanzilizhuanquan，shuoyaobagongsibaifenzhisanshidegufenzhuandaowomingxia，
zuoweijiehunsanzhouniandebuchang。neishihouwohaixiaozhetuikaita：“nidejiushiwode，fenneimeqingzuoshenme。
”duokexiao。santianhou，xuyudexinxixiangdingshizhadanbanzhakai。bushiyitiao，shiyilianchuandetupianheyuyin。
diyizhangshiwofangzaiyimaojianzuishenchudezhensishuiqun，cikezhengchuanzaixuyushenshang。zhaopianbeijingshizhuwodehunchuang，
luwangnandeshoubeidazaitayaojian，shuiyanmohu，quezugoubianren。peiwenshi：“qiaoqiaojie，
wangnangeshuozheiqunzihaishinizaibalimaide？zhensihaoshufuya，jiushiyoudianji，yaoxianyoudiankuan，
kenengshiwobinishouba。”dierzhangshixuyude**zhao，tajuzheshoujizaiyushijingziqian，
suoguchuyoumeixinxiandehonghen。wenzitiaoxindegengzhibai：“tashuonicongbuliuzheizhongyinji，taisibanle。qiaoqiaojie，
fuqizhijian，haishiyaoyoudianqingqude，nishuoduima？”zhouqiaomianwubiaoqingdihuadongpingmu，
diankaineiduanwufenzhongdeyuyin。kaitoushiluwangnandaizhejiuqidexiao，jiezheshiwangandeshengyin：“wangnan，
nizhendasuangenzhouqiaotanpai？tashoulikeyougongsidehexindaima。”“daima？”luwangnanchixiaoyisheng，
yuqilideqingmiexiangcuiledudebingzhui，“wozaojiurangjishububeifenle。taneizhongshudaizi，
lilewoshenmedoubushi。dangnianyaobushiwozhuita，tanengyoujintian？”“neitani？tingshuotahuaiyunle？
”“huailezhenghao，”luwangnandeshengyinhuranyadi，hunzheqinwendeshuiziyin。
“zhouqiaoneizhonglianhaizidoushengbuchudenvren，liuzheyoushenmeyong。dengnadaotaneibiandekeyanziyuan，jiugentali。
”houmianshixuyujiaodiadeshengyin：“wangnange，nibiezheimeshuoqiaoqiaojie……buguotashuotagaileqibandefangan，
qishinizaojiurangwozhaorenyouhuaguoleba？”“congming。”luwangnandixiao，“tayejiuzheidianyongchule。
”yuyinjiaranerzhi。zhouqiaobashoujifangzhuoshang，jinshuwaiqiaozhuangjizhuomiandeshengxianggewaicier。wunian。
congershisuidaoershiwusui。jidetadiyicichuangyeshibai，dunzaitianqiaoxiaku，shiwobajiangxuejinquanbuquchulai，
mailexiangpaomianpeitazhudixiashi。tashuoyaozuorengongzhinengshi，wotongxiaodadanxiedaima，
quebazhuanlishushangtademingzi。tagongsishangshineitian，zaiqinggongyanshangbaozhewo，
shuoyaorangwochengweishijieshangzuixingfudenvren。yuanlaisuoyoudeshiyan，douzhishitaxiangshangpadedianjiaoshi。
zuihouyitiaoxinxijinlaishi，wozhengzaidabaodaxueshidekeyanbiji。wodiankaitupian，shizhangyunjiandan，
xuyudemingziqingxikejian，yunzhoushizhou。xiamianfuzheyixingzi：“qiaoqiaojie，wangnangeshuo，
nianzaiguoqudeqingfenshang，rangnitimiandianlikai。fangzihechezidouliujini，suanshibuchang。biedengtaqinzikaikou，
neiyangdajiadounankan。”wodingzheneizhangtupiankanlehenjiu，huranxiaochusheng。buchang？tazhouqiaoxuyaotadebuchang？
dakaijiamiyunpan，woxinjianleyigewenjianjia，mingmingwei“luwangnan”。
chejiluyihuifudeshipin、xuyufalaidesuoyouxinxi、shenzhibaokuoluwangnangongsihexinjishudeyuanshidaimabeifen，
yigunaoquanchuanlejinqu。mimashechengtadeshengri，neigetazaoyiyiwang，taquejileshinianderizi。
shoushixinglishi，dakaiyiju，limianguamanleluwangnansongdemingpaifushi。woyijianmeina，
zhizhuanglejijianwozijimaidechunmiantxuheniuziku。shuzhuoshangdegezidanzuanjie，zhaixialaifangzaishoushiheli，
heneizhiyinshoulianbingpaibaifang。zoudaoxuanguanshi，huitoukanleyanzheigezhulesanniandejia。shuijingdengyijiucuican，
hunshazhaoshangdelianggerenxiaodetianmi。zixikan，wohaishijiangwoneiyibancaijianlexialai。taiexinle，
wobuxianggentatongyigekuang。wanyaohuanxie，xiejuzuixiacengfangzheliangshuangtuoxie，yishuangshiwode，yishuangshiluwangnande。
wobazijideneishuangrengjinlajitong，fachuchenmendeshengxiang。shoujixiangqi，shiluwangnan。“qiaoqiao，
wanshangwangantamenjucan，wowandianhui。”tadeshengyintingqilaihewangchangyiyang，daizhegongzuohoudepibei，
beijingyinliyinyueyouxuyudexiaosheng，beitakeyiyadile。“hao”“woshengyinxiangjielebingdehumian。“duile，
nishufangdisancengchoutili，youwojinizhunbeidedongxi。”gualedianhuahouwolaheiletasuoyoudelianxifangshi，
baokuoshejiaozhanghaoheyouxiang。zoudaolouxia，sijizaoyidenghouduoshi。zuojincheli，
wangzhehoushijingliyuelaiyuexiaodebieshu。“mafanshifuqujichang。
”bangeyueqianwodekeyandengkanshoudaoleguowaimingxiaodeoffer，dangshiwobuyuanlikailuwangnan，
pawolikaihougongsituanduimeirendai。xuexiaoshuojiwoliuzhiweibannian，zhiyaowodaying，mashangkeyishanggang。
chezishilibieshuqushi，wodakaichechuang，wanfengchuifuzhewodezhangfa。woxiangqiershisuineinian，ganghaodayi，
luwangnanfanqiangjinwosushelouxia，zaiyinghuashuxiadijiwoyifengqingshu。tashuoyongyuanduiwohao。yuanlaiyongyuanzheimeduan，
duandaozhigoutaliyongwantadeyiqie，jiuqizhirubilv。luwangnanhuijiashi，yishilingchenyidian。tuikaijiamen，
yingjietadeshiyipianqihei。tahanlesheng“qiaoqiao”，meirenyingda。ankaiguanmeifanying，
lianzhinengyinxiangdoumeiledongjing。tamochushoujixiangdajiwo，
tingtongliquechuanlaibinglengdetishiyin：“ninsuobodadehaomashikonghao。”yigumomingdekonghuangjuezhuleta。
tadiediezhuangzhuangchongjinshufang，dakaidisancengchouti。limianmeiyoujingxi，zhiyouyifenlihunxieyi。
zuimoyefuzhezhanga4zhi，luoliezhewoweiluwangnangongsichuangzaodejiazhi：“2019.3yinjianzhangdong，
cucheng5000wanrongzi。2020.7youhuapeifang，shengchanchengbenjiangdi37%。
2021.11datonghuanbaojuqudao，xinxiangmuhuopi。……yishang，liangqing。”woqingxiudeziji，
quedaizhecigudehanyi：“luwangnan，niyongwodeziyuanyangnvren，yongwodexinrendangchouma，zhenzang。
gongsixianzaiyongdedaima，sangeyuehouzidongshixiao，zhunizaorizhaodaokexiufudejishurenyuan。