第三章如何选择
duyunruizainvxuezhongdebiaoxian，henkuaijiuzaijingchengzhongchuankai。
kuazan、xiaitadeguifurenyuelaiyueduo。
buguo，duyunruifaxian，wobingmeixiangshangbeizidetayiban，beijingchengdeyizhongguinvguli。
manmande，shijiadazude**men，sihukaishibiandegengyuanyigenwoqinjin。
tabumingbai，weishenmetongyangshijingchengdiyimeiren，tongyangshishijiagongzi、huangzihuangsunzhuizhudeduixiang，weishenmewojiukeyibubeijidu。
shishishang，shangbeizi，tabeiguinvmentaoyan，bingbuquanshiyinweiwaibiao。
“duyunchu，jinrichunguangmingmei，wodainiquyouhukehao？”
congnvxuechulaihou，taizixieantingyoudaizheyizhonggenban，zaimenkoudengwo。
dangjinshengshangzisidanbo，zhiyoutaiziheerhuangzilianggeerzi，xieantingyoudangjinhuanghousuochu，jishidiyoushizhang，chujunzhiweishifenwengu。
shijingchengzhongshuoyibuerdecunzai。
xieantingxiaimeiren，shangyishi，tayeshizheiyanggaodiaodeduiduyunruishiai。
neishideduyunruijiaoaojile，henbudejiangzijiyutaizideguanxizhaogaotianxia。
tazhengriyuyutaizizaiwaisihun，jingchengzhongliuyanjianqi，dajiadoushuotayutaizizaoyiyouleshouwei。
yintashichangzhangzhetaizidechongaiqiya、wuruqitafushangde**，guinvmenyejiujianjianyuanlileta。
但我与她不同。
xieantingshuangbeizhangkai，duzhuwodequlu。
“zheishibentaizidisanciyaoqingni，duyunchu，niquhaishibuqu？”
woduizhetaqingqingfuleyili，kaikoudao：“taizidianxia，chennvshunancongming。”
yixiangyaofengdefengyaoyudeyudetaizinachiguozheizhongbiequ，yankanweiguanderenyuelaiyueduo，tayanzhongshanguoyisibingleng，yudainuyidao：
“duyunchu，nibiebushitaiju，ququshilangzhinv，jingranganyierzaizaiersandejujuewo，renaolebentaizi，nikezhishishenmexiachang？”
zhouweiderendoubeihedaoyiyanbufa。yinwei，jiuzaiqianjiri，yigexiaolijiadenverbuzhizenmerenaoleta，beitadangchanghuohuodasi。
zhixiaocishihou，huangshanghuanghouyebingweiduitaguoyukeze，zhishibutongbuyangdexunchilejijuhou，jiujiangcishijieguo。
wotaitouwangxiangtaizi，zhuchunqingqi：“taizidianxia，gunanguanv，tongchengyichuan，jiyizhaoreliuyanfeiyu。kuangqie，ninyeshuole，jiafuzhishiququshilang，yunchuzenganrangzijiwuletaizidianxiademing。”
shuozhe，yidileicongwoyankuangzhonghualuo，kandexieantingyiliandexinteng。
“yunchu，nibiekua，nizhidaowobushizheigeyisi。”
“douyuanwo，kaolvdebuzhouquan，yunchu，nizhidaode，woxinyueni，jinshengfeinibuqu。”
“ai，suanlesuanle，buqujiubuquba。”
yankantaizibuzaiweinan，wojianhaojiushou，duizhetaguiguijujuxingleyili：
“duoxietaizidian**liang，chennvganjibujin。”
meimaodeliliang，guoranjingren。
但它有利也有弊。
taizijiranxiaimeiren，neiwojiuzhanxianchuzuimeideyimianxiangtashiruo，yicilaizibao。
zaiyongyoujueduideshilizhiqian，meiliduiwolaishuoshiyizhongfudan。
jiuxiangyiduobaoluzailubiandejiaohua，sheidouxianglaimoyimo、pengyipeng、zhaixialai。
buguo，wobingbudasuanxiangduyunruineiyang，zaozaodebazijixianshenjitaizi。
wosuishinvershen，quebuyuanzuoneiyifunanrendetusihua。
woyaozuocantiandashu，zhangkongzijiderensheng。